Is it true that looks don't matter in a relationship? My counselor says it's true. But if I throwup in my ?

mouth when I see my wife nude, how can it be true? I think this guy has a PHd in moronspeak, because I can't even look at my wife moo moo lovins' naked without becoming violently ill. When I use the Phillie Phanatic mascot uniform on her, I can at least look at her for short periods until my mind reminds me what's underneath.